Yehuda Bachana: Purim Tutorial - What Are Some Purim Traditions? [2023]

Purim has 4 main customs or commandments:

Firstly, the reading of the Book of Esther.
We read and remember the story of redemption, a true miracle!

In order to teach the next generation, the kids sit with us. They especially enjoy making noise with the ‘ra’ashan’ to ‘eradicated the memory of Haman.’

Secondly, the giving of ‘Purim baskets’ to neighbors and friends.

Esther 9:19 mentions ‘sending portions one to another.’
Usually people give some sweets and purim cookies, but feel free to be creative!

Of course, these baskets should just be a pleasant gesture, and not a competition. The goal is to increase mutual friendship, harmony and love.

Thirdly, gifts for the poor.
During Purim it is customary to give charity to the poor.
During the rest of the year we should be watchful and know the difference between those that are really poor, and those that aren’t. However, during Purim we give to ‘whoever puts out his or her hand.’

Fourthly, eat, drink, and be merry!
Purim entails: being happy, enjoying good food, a nice party and the drinking of wine. Whoever is sensitive to alcohol should drink less, and whoever knows alcohol will hurt them or cause them to sin shouldn’t drink it at all, of course.

Another custom is to dress up, wear costumes or make up, as part of the celebration and parties.

Enjoy!